Robert,
I am not sure I understand your question. when you use the word 'him' are you referring to the Adjuster? Please understand I am still dedicated, just moving away from hosting for the time being to refresh my soul.
CHRIST MICHAEL wishes to speak
"I am CHRIST MICHAEL Robert. Growth is a continuous process of change and rearrangements. The soul continues to grow by what it is fed, and sometimes needs a change in diet. By that I mean the soul is always on the lookout for new growth by searching, growing and sharing. We keep Amethyst's situation close to the vest, as it is personal to her particular situation, but in general terms you need to understand that everything revolves and evolves around the Adjuster. It is not a question of keeping him happy, or making him suffer. The Adjuster is concerned with your spiritual growth. Sometime it succeeds, sometime it needs to try a different approach. The soul can sometimes get into a rut by not listening closely to the Adjuster. He ( the Adjuster) recognizes that the soul needs to go out for a walk and breathe in fresh air (metaphorically of course).
If the mind is not in complete harmony with the Adjuster, it becomes difficult for him to do his job. This often happens when the mind takes it for granted that it is doing the FATHER's will, and never stops to consider just what the FATHER needs from you. Amethyst's Adjuster was able to recognize she was at a point where she needed to recalibrate, and re-align herself to the FATER's will, not through her human mind, but through her Adjuster. Sometimes she is slow to recognize these things but the Adjuster often start out with a change of feelings because humans pay far more attention to what they are feeling, instead of what they are thinking. When you feel out of sorts, but don't know why, the next logical step is to ask the Adjuster what is going on, and from that point on he put thoughts into the mind that can lead to discerning what the Adjuster is try to say.
I hope I did not overcomplicate this, but the bottom line is follow the Adjuster and let him lead the way. I hope this helps. If you need more clarification, just let me know".
Amethyst here again. Let me know Robert if this addresses your concern.